Well FORGIVE me!!!

Sep
11

How many times have you heard someone say they’re sorry, but their tone clearly revealed that they weren’t sorry at all?  How many times have you been the person doing just that?  It seems like people in our culture have a difficult time actually allowing themselves to regret a wrong action or feel sorrow for hurting someone else or even admit that they did anything wrong.  We always like to come up with excuses for our behavior.  It seems even more difficult for some people to actually forgive when they’ve been hurt.  So what do we do with all that emotion?  And does giving or receiving forgiveness actually do us any good?  What do you think?

This talk I gave last year was an emotional one for me.  I even felt choked up listening to it again.  But I sure am glad to have learned some things about dealing with this stuff in my own life.  What experiences have you had that you’ve learned from?

more painting in class

Sep
10

So we came back on Wednesday night ready to do a little more decorating.  We picked up where we left off with Crush.

17 turtle detail

Here he is all done and ready to ride the E.A.C…  (Who knows what that stands for?)

18 turtle done

Well, a turtle’s gotta eat…right?  We better paint him some jelly…

19 jelly start

We didn’t have time to finish the jellyfish yet.  So we’ll get back to him later.  But we really ought to have some sort of fish in our ocean.  None of the creatures we’ve painted so far are fish!  Can you believe it?  So we started some fishies…

21 fishes

And here they are all happily swimming with Mr. Turtle…

22 fishes

That’s all we had time for last night, but when we get more done I’ll put up more pictures.  Hope you liked ’em so far.

Painting Sunday School

Sep
8

Here’s our latest project at church…

Apparently nobody has done any painting or decorating in the Sunday School classrooms for a couple of decades, and Jenna decided it would be nice to spruce things up a bit, and she recruited her sister Emmy to help.  The girls thought it would be fun to paint an ocean mural in one of the rooms, and they asked me to help with painting the color of the water.  I said yes, not knowing that I was going to get roped into helping with all the detailing too.  Tricky girls!

Well, we started painting on Monday, and I thought it would be fun to share some of our progress.  Besides, it’s about time to get some posts up with pictures!  Right?

The room was some kind of a tan color to start off with.  So step one was laying down some basic water colors.  Here’s Emmy rolling on…

water colors

Then we blended the colors a bit and added some lighting details…

3 water detail

And we started our first critter – a friendly killer whale.  Here’s Jenna doing some outlining…

4 orcha start

Here he is all colored in…

6 orcha done

Lookout you little baby seals!  Mr. Orcha is hungry!

Once we had freed Willy it was time to work on Flipper…

7 dolphin

And here’s our dolphin all ready to swim…

8 dolphin done

Now we need someone to swim with the dolphins.  Look, it’s Scuba Steve…

10 scuba start

Maybe we should have all the kids wear snorkels and flippers to class…

12 scuba done

Hopefully they don’t feel the need to hold their breath every time they come to Sunday School…

13 scuba & dolphin

And our last sea creature for the day was the ghost of Crush.  Ok he’s not really a ghost, just an outline…

14 turtle start

Here’s Jenna filling in some color…

15 turtle color

Dude…sea turtles rock.  Well, that’s enough for one day.  We were having fun, but it was late and we were tired.

the American dream

Sep
5

Most of us, as we’re growing up, learn all sorts of rules to live by–things we’re supposed to do, things we’re not supposed to do, and things we’re supposed to dream about and work for.  And it seems like somewhere along the way we forget the purpose of why we live the way we do and what we’re working for.  We somehow get the idea that having lots of toys or a big house or an important title will really make our hearts happy, and we trade off the things that could really bring happiness for stuff that is ultimately empty and unfulfilling.  So what is it that really makes life worth living?

You want me to build a WHAT?!

Sep
3

Have you ever been asked to do something crazy?  I know people who do wild fun things just for the adrenaline rush.  But have you ever been in a situation where you really had to decide to stretch beyond your comfort zone for a bigger purpose?  It can be a tough decision to make.  This talk is about just that kind of dilemma.

honesty update

Sep
3

I was sharing my $40 of honesty story (the August 31st post) with some friends, and a couple days later my friend Sara told me that her mom did the same thing.  They were at the store together and had walked out with their purchases when Sara’s mom noticed that she hadn’t paid for something.  And without batting an eye she turned around and went back in to pay for it.

I definitely need to control my attitude.  I was grumbling about it, but she did it without any kind of complaint.  A person shouldn’t whine about doing the right thing.  Thanks for the lesson Sara!

Proverbs 28:6 It is better to be poor and honest than rich and crooked.

Let me tell you why you’re here…

Sep
2

Have you ever tried to switch the kind of milk you drink?  Like from 2% to skim.  I used to be a pure 2% milk drinker.  That’s what I grew up on, and the skim stuff was just way to watery.  I would never drink skim.  Or maybe you switched from drinking regular cola to diet.  It’s weird getting used to the different flavors or textures.  I did end up switching to skim milk because I figured I didn’t need that extra pat of butter in every cup.  I also tried switching to diet cola for awhile, but my body didn’t like that at all.  The Aspartame did nasty things in my digestive tract.  I don’t know if it was the aspartic acid or the phenylalanine or what, but after feeling sick every time I drank diet cola I did some research and found that Aspartame can have nasty effects on your bod.  I guess that’s why all the products that contain it have to have a warning label now.

Anyway, the point is that making any kind of change to your diet or routine can be difficult to get used to at first.  But there are some things that are well worth making a change for—like the benefits of regular exercise…and even talking about religious stuff.  Have you ever felt like you ought to change something?

Spiritual outlets, hospitals, & lizards

Sep
1

This is a little clip that talks about a couple analogies for what spiritual life and living as part of the church ought to be like.  I always like word pictures that help explain complex concepts in down-to-earth ways.

$40 worth of Honesty

Aug
31

So the other day me and mi linda esposa, Jenna, were at WalMart to get a couple picture frames and a B-day card for Chris–his birthday is next Sunday!  Anyway, we also were thinking it would be nice to have a couple new pillows for our bed. (You know how pillows get flat and hard after too many years of use?)  So while we were looking at pillows, we also looked at sheets.  We had 1 set of bedsheets that we use all the time, and they have always been a tight fit on the mattress–they barely cover the whole side of the mattress.   So we figured, ‘We’ve got a little extra in the household budget, let’s get some new sheets.’  The really nice 400 thread count, Egyptian cotton sheets were on sale for $35.  So we got ’em.  With the taxes, they were a little less than $40.

Pretty exciting, right?  Ok, here’s where the plot thickens:

This lady starts checking me out…because we had taken all our stuff to the checkout lane.  Anyway, she bags everything up and and we cart it out to the car.  But something wasn’t right.  The total on the receipt was less than what I thought it should be–by about $40.  So we took a closer look, and sure enough, somehow the sheets never got rung up at the register.  So now I’ve got a choice to make; do I keep the sheets as a gift from the benevolent WalMart corporation that was kind enough to put them in a nice plastic gift bag for me…or do I go back in and pay for what the checkout lady missed?  As soon as I asked that question, I already knew the answer.  My conscience told me the right thing to do was to pay for what I wanted to keep.

I grumbled about it.  Even as I walked back into the store, I thought about how much I was spending on being honest.  I wondered how much difference this would make.  $40 is didley to a multi-billion dollar operation like WalMart.  They certainly aren’t going to notice or care about what I was doing.  I wondered how much it mattered to God.  I know he always wants us to do the right thing.  But was this something he’d be really happy about or simply satisfied that I did what was right?  I didn’t do it for a reward or for recognition, but I did plenty of bad things in my life B.C. and it would be super cool to know anytime that I did something to really make God happy.  I would pay way more than $40 anytime I can make my relationship with God closer.  The more I hear from him the better my life gets. So my real question was, did I gain anything for being honest–besides bed sheets?  What does $40 worth of honesty get you?  You can’t buy God–he owns the universe.  His law says to be holy, so being honest was simply my duty to him.  But does the fact that I was faithful in this small matter help connect me any closer with my Savior?

I shared all these thoughts with Jenna on the drive home, and she pointed out the fact that actually listening to and obeying God’s leading on my heart would promote more leading from God.  Jesus said “Those who love me are the ones who keep my commands.”  And he said when we are faithful with the small things he asks us to do that he will bless us with bigger things.  So listening to the still small voice of God’s Spirit in my heart, and doing what was right, demonstrated my love for God and proved to him that I was faithful in this way.  So he now has that much more reason to bless me with more of his trust.  What a cool thought–something as small as that could improve my relationship with the Almighty!  Not that he ever loves me more or less, but to prove my faithfulness in service to God–even in a small way, just makes me feel good all over.

God has blessed us with more than enough to get by.  We can sleep on Egyptian cotton sheets.  When most of the world lives on $1 or $2 a day, I feel extremely blessed.  So we prayed in the car, on the way home that God would help us to always be as honest as he has been generous to us.  He has given an overabundance to us.  So we can give an over abundance of honesty and faithfulness to his commands.  In the grand scheme of our lives $40 is a tiny drop in the bucket.  But the priceless rewards for righteousness are worth more than any bank could hold in its vaults.

I thank God for the opportunity he presented to make that choice to pay for the sheets or not.  It was a great chance to stop and think about all the blessings God has given us and how much doing the right thing is really worth in life.  May your life be filled with moments of doing the right thing in big ways and small.  And may you know an abundance of God’s blessings through your faithfulness!

PS. My father-in-law pointed out that if you want God to bless your marriage bed, you shouldn’t sleep on stolen sheets!

Don’t go to church

Aug
27

Plenty of people go to church on Sundays and sit in a pew and think that pretty much covers their religious quota for the week.  But Jesus had some pretty strong ideas about religion and what kind of impact it ought to have in real life.  This talk explores some of those ideas and how they might affect life today.